Surely, surely you have seen a seen a banner with "Find out what your name tells about you" or "Where does your name come from" written on it. Most likely you ridiculed these in your mind. Maybe there is a deeper connection through astronomical amounts of choices and variables that lead to your name being chosen, but in the end it's just the product of the one's mind that named you, which then again states quite clearly that your name does not say anything about you, but a great deal about your name-giver rather. It says so much because this choice usually means a lot in any cultural context, even if it does so in an extremely obscured way. Angelica - is it related to faith maybe or to high hopes of raising an angelic child? Is it the name of the name-giver's own mother and does it then tell us it's obedience to rules and habits or the valuing of traditions rather? A lot of times some simple reason like learning about Angelica in biology or listening to Anathema's "Angelica" can be found. Yet again some more sophisticated deeply psychological analyzes could derive something from the phonetics of the word or from something on the visual basis. I've never actually liked my name and it kind of hurts whenever I meet someone whose name I like. Maybe it's even another factor that makes me want to believe there is something special about the bearer of a beautiful name.
The mid-game is the part I never like, or rarely rather. There's nothing new, nothing too old and all options, but the ones which are strictly linked to another part of the 'game', are open. It's too late now to set the rules as you like, for that was done in the early-game. Any changes you submit to or create have to be gradual and consistent with what was set to be true earlier. Putting it bluntly it's like saying "I want to eat an apple five minutes ago" and then realizing you can not do so for the simple reason that it's too late for that. Mostly any abruptness seems out of place or is unimaginable at that stage so you must have patience to sit trough that long-winded part of the game. If indeed you are dealing with an actual game, then it's best to go through the most important details that should be kept in mind and scanning the system and the game's current state for windows of opportunities and the like. If it's a relationship or anything else with no particular target in mind then I recommend you keep going as you are always...
Some things like reading a book are made simple throughout all the phases by constantly making it interesting, but mostly you just have to bear through whatever you are doing and try not loosing focus.
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